Why is it that a simple photograph can make you feel so bad about yourself. I know that a photo is an image of what we look like but why when I look in a mirror do I not see that photo image?
I asked my daughter if she would take some pictures of me for my blog (my mumentum post) so that I could keep a track of my weight loss progress in pictures. Steff is always taking lovely pictures for her blog so I let her click away.
When I looked through the memory card of pictures I was devastated. I am still so fat and have several chins. I also look like I have never seen sunlight in years. I had finally felt more confident to wear different clothes but now I have seen photographic evidence lets just say I have a very long way to go.
I understand that we never see ourselves the same as others see us. I suppose its the same as our voices, I hate my works answer machine message but everyone tells me that is what I talk like.
Well that is enough of me feeling sorry for myself, I did try to make my mumentum post more interesting with pictures but lets just say they all went in the recycle bin x
Don't despair, Dianne! I think everyone feels the same, as you say - people see you very differently from how you see yourself. We're far more critical of ourselves though. You're doing really well - remember how great the confident feeling is you mentioned, and keep going. You can do it!
ReplyDeleteDon't be so hard on yourself, your doing brilliantly! And yes, we're our own worst judges, what you see isn't what others see, but it's so hard not to be critical when we see that mirror. Stay positive! Nat
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